Reunion

This past weekend was different than usual. On Saturday, I met up with some old friends from college. During the time at Salisbury University this group spent many nights hanging out and having fun. It was great to get back together hear what we all are doing now. It was also enjoyable to talk about and remember some of the crazy times we had.

My friend Kat, just moved into a house in Columbia. She decided to throw a "Wine & Cheese" party. Kat hosted a great party. I tried some unique kinds of cheese. The wine was great. I prefer red wine for sure. Not that I was trying to drink like old times, but to taste the different kinds of wine was nice. I did find that "Yellow Tail" is a very cost effective and good wine. I do recommend it.

While I was enjoying the music, the food, the company, and the wine, I realized that we all have come along way since we graduated. It's funny normally in college, some will ask, "where do you see yourself in five years"? Two of my friends were in serious relationships and on their way to marriage. Others were still building their careers. The common questions were, "so what do you do?" "so is their anyone in your life?""what have you been up too?" I then looked back onto where I have come. When I graduated I was still with my ex-girlfriend, I was still in party mode, and I was definitely living my life day-to-day. I think now that I look back, I don't look at what I have accomplished, or where I have grown. I ask myself, "Do I understand myself better, and am I happy?" One major factor obviously has been the fact that I have committed my life to Christ. Since then, my life and character has slowly transformed and still is. I also have noticed that since my involvement with the church, I have grown such a great community of friends. Some may call them brothers and sisters. Someday, I may even re-unite with these friends and talk about all the great times and events.

The power of a relationship is incredible. Sometimes just time spent, a deep trust, a common interest, a similar belief, or even a cold beer can be the tie to friendships. All relationships have seasons and when we have the opportunity to reunite, it is usually good for great times and laughs. This time was fun, and I truly look forward to the next time I get a chance to hang out with my old college buddies.

Mosquito

Have you ever met someone for the first time and just knew that you probably wouldn't get along with them? I never go out to judge others, but I do have a pretty good read on ones character. The reason I mention this, is the fact that lately I have been dealing with a situation that is not ordinary for me. Frankly, I can't understand the situation and it has me unbalanced and holding my tongue.

See, ever since I started my new job I have had the privilege to meet tons of new and interesting people. In the process many have gotten to know me. On the other hand, this one girl, has been quite the opposite. In fact, since day one, she has treated me with little regard or respect. It is somewhat of a conundrum. Generally and modestly, I find others are eager to get to know me, and find me insightful. Unfortunately, this is not the case. I have attempted to be nice but it only feeds the fire. Typically now, in a day, we may say a few words to one another. It is quite sad. Another thing is that I have to listen to her all day. I can honestly say that I do not believe I have ever met a more annoying individual. Mix whining, fueled with a constant need for attention, to a very insecure woman in a horrible relationship. I hear it all, all day. And when she takes the time to attempt to amuse herself with quirky comments aimed at me, it does not make it easier to hold my words. I have outwardly professed my beliefs. She uses that when possible to attempt to catch me. This broken girl needs love, and help. I try so hard to compose myself during her childish actions. Honestly, I find myself wanting to slam her verbally. I thank the Lord for the will to withhold. Again, I still don't understand why this individual has chosen me to take out her pain. Is it for entertainment? Do I throw out some arrogant facade that would make others want to challenge me? All I know is that she has become a pest to me, and keeps on biting. I have prayed for healing for this person, I just don't know. I don't want my strong personality to over take my passion to follow Christ's will. Please pray.

Lord God, I ask for direction and clarity. I ask You to continue in the life of this girl. She needs to know You and learn to understand how much You love her. Lord, I ask for wisdom and discernment when dealing with these strainful situations. Lord, if I may have a flaw, I give it you. Please draw any weaknesses away from this relationship. Heal this haughty heart Lord. I ask this all in your precious name, Amen.

"Called Out"

Today I decided to clean my wounds, grab a bed, and stay home. See, I have been battling a cold for the past week or so, and finally it has caught up to me. I called my mother(RN) yesterday, and she was upset to hear her son sick. And then she got a little mad that I told her that I have been continuing to play my normal two days a week of soccer. I thought I was going to pass out last night.

I know it's been sometime since my last entry. A lot has happened since then. Mostly, I have been hanging out when possible with my friends at Horizon. A lot of the time involves hang out and fellowship after the Friday night soccer games. We finished our first season and we had so much interest with people wanting to play, that I organized another team. Multiplying the team out was tough but it has allowed others to play. I have friends playing on my other team integrating with friends from church. Shoot, you never know, at this pace we may have a enough teams for a league of our own.

This past weekend I had the privilege to share a monumental moment with my friends Mark and Sandi. They got married this past Saturday and had an amazing reception. It was so wonderful seeing all my old friends from Grace. It was also so interesting to see so many new couples. I was sitting back in one of the pews waiting for wedding party. I gazed over the church and saw a couple of my friends (guy & girl) sitting rather closely. And then I realized wow. God was very present during the ceremony and the reception was brilliant. I left early but know that if I wasn't sick it would have been a great addition to my sweet weekend.

Last night was Superbowl Sunday. After a great service and message from Josh Smith, some friends ventured over to Rebecca and Suzanne's. Thanks ladies, for opening up your place. The food prepared was great. I left early to go to my Sunday night game. I can not believe that they scheduled the game on this night. We (the team) guessed that it was because it was run by a bunch of people of Hispanic decent. (as PC as it gets) We all show up, and I mean we ALL. I was amazed to see how many of our team made it out. We usually have trouble having the team show up consistently. On the night of the Superbowl, a night everyone I know wants to be hogging it out, throwing back a brew, and screaming with all your friends. Yes, this night! This group drove miles to make the game, and we did. Our team was there and ready, but the other, well I believe they were all doing what I wanted to be doing. So we all played a scrimmage game and took our forfeit win. Currently, Cross-eyed is now in first place! *Booya*

Well, now I am going to take this time today to rest. I have some meds, my TV, and a smoking book. Until, the next time. Hopefully, it won't be another day when I call out.